I believe it is basic human nature to want to grow as individuals. I believe at some level everyone wants to learn more about themselves, grow emotionally and continue to expand their beliefs. Through growth and change sprouts fulfillment. Of course the majority of us would like this all to happen overnight, without lifting a finger. Nothing ‘life changing’ happens easily or without long-term commitment to the process. What are you willing to do in order to become the person you want to become? What sacrifices are you willing to make? Would you be willing to observe yourself from an outside perspective? All you really need is the desire, openness and consistency to move forward in your life. Sometimes just the recognition of feeling frustrated or stressed may be a sign to open yourself up to new possibilities. You can continue going through your life “settling”, or you can become your biggest advocate and take control of your life and the destination.
ACTION STEPS FOR THE WEEK:
1. Be open to new ways
If you continue doing things a certain way, you will continue to get the same results. Don’t limit yourself to only one philosophy. Be willing to add a little variety to your routine this week. Drive to work a different way. Ask an unfamiliar colleague out to lunch. Sign up for a class that sparks your interest.
2. Take small actions
To get what you want in life you need to take small actions on a consistent basis. Break down your overwhelming goal into smaller manageable steps. If you are seeking more “me” time, set aside 10 minutes in the morning and 10 minutes at night. You can increase your time as you go. Be patient to this process, the end result is worth the intial work.
3. Incorporate gratitude
Set aside time every day to express gratitude in your life. Being grateful for what you “do” have keeps you grounded and in the moment. The intention of gratitude will keep you focused on the larger picture. List 5 things daily that you were grateful for that day.
Have a great week!