Create Fulfilling Relationships by Choice

Everyone wants to be surrounded by loving, supportive, and uplifting people. Whether wanting to create a solid group of friendships, or looking for that special significant other, you need to invest some time and energy to make this happen. First you need to decide on the kind of person you’d like to meet, then you take specific actions to make that happen. Of course it would be easier and safer to sit at home and wait for these individuals to show up on your doorstep, but this is highly unlikely. You need to be willing to look at yourself first, because likes attract likes. Are you looking for certain traits and characteristics that you don’t possess yourself? Be willing to look in the mirror first, make necessary changes and then go out there full stream. This week give yourself an opportunity to take a full inventory, detail exactly what you want and then spread the word.


1. What specifically are you looking for?
Are you craving a close friendship? Would you like to find a soulmate? Once you determine who you want to attract into your life, what specific characteristics do you want them to portray? Make a list of all their qualities. For ex. hobbies, physical characteristics, beliefs.

2. Look at this list often
Once you have outlined your master list, look at it often. By writing it down and then reading it, you are setting your intentions into motion. You need to be clear on what you want before you can attract that into your life.

3. Get out there
Once you have created the list, you need to get out there and meet this person. Be proactive! Don’t wait at home for the phone to ring. Join clubs, volunteer, put your profile on line, etc…This week decide where you want to spend your time. Be willing to go out on a limb and take a risk!

Have a great week!